Offer a solution, not a problem. Offer your living witness of the Goodness of the Lord. Be a fruitful servant by showing and leading the way. You cannot preach and expect change. Be the example. Be the health and reward of good choices. What you show, you tell. You cannot say one thing but be another. You must be a good witness of your words, of your story. If you want to see changes in the world, change yourself. It is only by good example – and love – that others change. Condemnation stagnates and repels. Be the voice of reason just by “being” yourself. You need not engage in fruitless arguments. You will be resented and hated. And your life-joy will be drained from you. Live happily and healthfully, with integrity and excellence. This is your true witness.