When you allow hurt to overtake your life, you cease to “live”. You die each moment a little bit more. Why do humans focus upon what hurts have been thrust upon them? Why do they not see each precious moment of life as a gift? This is one of the most successful tactics of the evil one. Divide and conquer. He does not need do anything at all. Humans will easily separate themselves from each other and turn to evil thoughts and actions as “recompense”. I do not Will abuse. This is not the meaning of these Words. However, too much emphasis is placed upon past hurts. Become mature. Put aside the past, and move toward the future as a fully, loving person.