Give all things the time that they need to grow. You cannot rush the Love growing in one human or another. No, be patient – with all diligence – to seek what is True, and let the Love of Christ transform you, your life. By your own good witness shall others see what Truth Is. You cannot infuse it into them. They must learn the lessons. They must watch and grow, too. Let go of the need to control – people, events. That does not mean don’t “work”. You cannot sit around and let life happen. Give up the struggle, and you will continue in the direction that will bring you peace and joy.