A transfer of thoughts is needed today. Change your focus from self to others. When you can make something special for someone else, do not demand your own way. This does not mean to not take care of yourself or to allow abuse. This does mean that others like to feel special. Others do want to know that they matter, that you care. A small kindness is greater than expensive gifts and things that will eventually rot in the dust. Sincere words of appreciation are the best. Let others know that their efforts are seen and matter. Share with others the good you see in them. Be less focused on their “negatives” and focus on their “positives”. This may seem clique… and for good reason – it is truth. Your time and appreciation are the best gifts you can give.